Do you know that one of the most common practices by Chinese parents is setting up blind dates for their sons and daughters?, It is crazy that parents urge their children to go for blind dates before they graduate and want them to get married once they finish their studies. The blind date is quite blunt sometimes because it looks more like an exchange of the necessary information to determine whether these two adults are quite suitable for each other. Let’s take a look at the kind of questions that is often asked in a typical Chinese blind date arrangement. If you ever need to go through this kind of creep dates, then here is heads up for you to make an early and wise preparation.
1. 你今年多大了?
    How old are you.
2. 你是做什么工作的?
    What do you do for a living?
3. 你的年收入有多少?
    How much do you earn annually?
4. 你将来打算要几个小孩?
    How many children would you like to have?
5. 你希望什么时候结婚?
    When will you like to get married?
6. 你希望和爸妈一起住吗?
    Do you like to live with your parents after the marriage?
7. 你有自己的房子,贷款还清了吗?
    Do you have a house that is not under a loan plan?
8. 你的兴趣爱好是什么?
    What are your hobbies and interests?
Truth be told, this new generation hate this kind of blind date, putting all condition on the table to make a match. Due to rapid societal changes and orientation this arrangement is slowly fading away. It is also important to note that not everyone is material-oriented, if you like a Chinese, the universal principle should be taking it slowly and getting to know each other better before moving to the next stage, this arranged blind date by parents on the other hand looks more like an interrogation and you will agree with me that it is kind of awkward especially when parents are involved.

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